Lies, Sex, Misery, and Lawyers
Dating SUCKED!!! I hated it. I was awful at it, which in hindsight is probably the biggest reason why I hated it, bottom line it was just a miserable experience for me, and one I never want to endure again. Although being married didn't go well for me the first time either. It ended in a courtroom, but honestly, when you have kids involved, it never really does actually end. But, despite that awful experience, I am married again. Why you ask? Good question. I met my soul mate, that's why. I hope things stay the way they are right now for the rest of our lives.
Wow, it seems like you really did have a bad time.Relationships are not always as easy as they look, as both people have to work at it to get it right and if one person gives up, then it's over.
ReplyDeleteIt's always a nice thing when one finds their soul mate and you would not have done so if you had given up on love.
Very true
DeleteGood luck this time! My Dad often said 'you should never do anything for the first time'. He was referring to putting up shelves and such, but in my experience it's true for marriage too! You have had practice...
ReplyDeleteYour Dad sounds very wise.
DeleteI never liked dating, and was happy to find my soul mate when I was 18. I've always heard the second time around is the best. Good post.
ReplyDeleteYeah, dating is awful.
DeleteThat is a very good post. You are my soulmate! I love ya to the moon and back!!
ReplyDeleteAww, thank you babies.
DeleteDating is pretty miserable and relationships can be worse. The truth is, the longer you stay in a relationship, the more flaws you find in one another. It takes a lot of tolerance and commitment to keep forgiving, accepting, and making it work.
ReplyDeleteGood luck! :-)
Very true!
DeleteDating blows a ton, hate it under my sun, still single though so have to once in a while give it a go
ReplyDeleteI won't hate on you, I've got other things to do, when you find someone to marry you, your dating days will be through.
DeleteYeah, dating's no picnic. Sometimes marriage isn't either but it sounds like you have a good relationship going on now. Keep working at it always. :)
ReplyDeleteThanks, I will
DeleteAnd the older you get, the scarier dating again looks. My husband said he sucked at it and never wants to do it again. I aim to make sure he doesn't!
ReplyDeleteRight on, I think people divorce too easily.
DeleteOoh...dating. How awful. I'm so happy for you that you found your soulmate. I wish I could say the same.
ReplyDeleteYou will one day!
DeleteA lot of truth here succinctly stated. I can totally relate to your experience and I know exactly how it is with the kids. Too bad they have to deal with the crap that is foisted upon them. So glad that things turned better for you.
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Tossing It Out
Yeah it really is disgusting to me how disposable people think marriage is today.
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